What Matters More, Memories of Past or Present?

Is it like what people said, relations can be really fragile?

If wisdom and be used to sort out problems caused by relations, i bet everyone would be living happily ever after since then. Sometimes memories do hold us back, leaving scars between time.

There was once a friend of mine told me, not to set any "requirements" when you seek your other half, instead, trust your feelings (though our feeling is the main joker that spoil everything at times). His piece of advice that moment really meant something to me. Looking upon my past, i began to realize i took them too seriously. Why should i seek another shadow of her by any chance?

Past has made who we are today, no doubt about that. However, even we ourselves do puzzle about what we are seeking for. Doubts and question marks began to raise up every time an error occur. In the end, we blame time, we blame others for not understanding us, we blame the first move we took and even the feeling that made us a fool.

Sometimes, the more you expectations you put, the bigger the disappointment you'll get. Perhaps you're afraid to be hurt again. Placing yourself as a cactus - serves the purpose of protecting yourself from being hurted, but in fact, you're just hiding from problems. Well, fortunate for you, you wasted 2 silly years just to get over a relation, silly boy.

Does memory meant so much to you? At least i know that first relation means a lot for girls. Your tears can drop for someone who once you like, but never for those who once loved you. You remember every single moments you spend with the first, but others seem just like a dream to you. Inside you, there's still scar. The more you acknowledge it's presence, the bigger it will get. How i know? I had my own stories as well :)



If you were to agree that love has no rights or wrongs, prove me wrong then.


P/s: I hope everyone enjoyed my piece of thought...